“The Root That Holds Him”
Purpose: To deepen emotional attachment, calm the nervous system, and energetically “bind” him with the essence of desire and comfort. Best used when you want him thinking of you, longing for your presence, and feeling magnetized by your scent and spirit.
Ingredients:
- ½ tsp valerian root (ground or chopped)
- 1 tsp damiana (for passion and attraction)
- 1 tsp rose petals (for heart-centered love)
- A pinch of cinnamon (to heat and stick the spell)
- 1 tsp honey (to sweeten his perception of you)
- A drop of vanilla extract (for emotional warmth and familiarity)
Instructions:
- Bring water to a gentle simmer—don’t boil it violently.
- Add valerian root and damiana first. Let simmer for 10 minutes.
- Add rose petals and cinnamon, then remove from heat. Let steep another 5 minutes.
- Strain into a mug and stir in honey and vanilla.
- Whisper your intention into the steam (e.g., “Let your heart remember me. Let your body crave me. Let your spirit stay wrapped in mine.”)
- Serve warm. Make sure you drink a few sips too—to connect both of you to the spell.
Optional Additions:
- Place a hair strand or a name sigil beneath the cup while brewing.
- Serve on a Friday during the waxing moon for Venus-aligned potency.
- Use a cup or mug that’s been kissed or held by you.
Note from Lucille:
Valerian is ruled by Mercury and has a deep, sticky psychic vibration. It lingers in the system like a perfume. It’s not glamorous—but it’s anchoring. This is the kind of spell that makes a man restless without your voice, that binds in dreams and memory more than lust.
Use wisely.
